I went to Bangkok last year, and I plan to go to Asia next year. But the traffic in Asia is worse than what you would find in Atlanta, because of the huge population density. Driving a car becomes impossible, but what makes transportation possible is the well developed public transport system. Look at Shanghai (11 mil), Seoul (10mil) or even Delhi(11mil), these large cities survive by efficient public transport and a hell of a lot of bikes.
When population increases there is a need to move people more efficiently than just the use of cars. Development of special lanes, like you said is great up until the point where they become exhausted. They probably built 8 lane freeways to cope with traffic for the future. BUt methods will always become exhausted, from the amount of people being moved.
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